Mental Health
Why Does My Anxiety Hit So Hard in the Morning Before I’ve Even Gotten Out of Bed?
The quality of your sleep and the size of your to-do list can both play a role.
By Erica Sloan
What It Means if You’re Wholly Numb Right Now—And How to Cope
It’s a normal way of processing a range of big emotions at once, according to experts.
By Erica Sloan
Your Grief Over the Election Results Is Entirely Valid
Experts say it’s natural to mourn any lost hopes, dreams, and expectations for the future.
By Jenna Ryu
What’s the Difference Between Stress and True Burnout?
Understanding the distinction can help you make some changes before things get really bad.
By Jenna Ryu
‘Sunset Anxiety’ Is a Real Thing. Here’s Why You Might Feel Uneasy as Daylight Fades
It’s different for everyone, but there’s an overarching sense of loss—of both time and control.
By Lauren Mazzo
7 Ways to Ease Flight Anxiety, According to Experts
Recent headlines may be fueling your fears—try these tips for staying calm.
By Jenna Ryu
A Haircut Can Actually Ease Your Winter Blues–Here Are 7 Celeb-Inspired Looks to Try
While a new ‘do isn’t a fix-all, therapists say it can brighten up the bleakest season.
By Grace McCarty
The Very Best Cozy Games, From Someone Who’s Played Over 1,000 Hours of Them
Cook, decorate, and sort to your heart’s content.
By Sarah Felbin
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6 Clever Ways to Take a Little Break From Your Family During the Holidays
There’s nothing wrong with wanting some alone time, even when you’re with people you love.
By Jenna Ryu
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No, You Can’t Just ‘Bank’ All Your Rest During Vacations and Breaks
Experts say you need to make downtime part of your everyday life for it to work.
By Erica Sloan
5 Subtle Signs You Might Actually Be in a Codependent Relationship
And how to regain your independence without having to drift apart.
By Jenna Ryu
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How to Take Rejection Way Less Personally
The pain is real, but understanding it can stop you from spiraling.
By Julia Ries
You Really Can’t ‘Fix’ Other People—Here’s How to Make Peace With That
Past trauma and hurt are valid, but those aren’t excuses for treating you like crap.
By Jenna Ryu
How to Practice Self-Gratitude This Thanksgiving
It might seem awkward, but giving yourself praise is actually really important.
By Julia Sullivan
9 People Share How They Coped With the Crushing Pain of Losing a Parent
“I reminded myself that while I wouldn’t come out of the grieving process unchanged, I would come out of it.”
By Christine Pride
Why Do I Revert Back to My Moody Teenage Self Whenever I’m Around My Family?
Old dynamics die hard—especially if you’re still treated like a kid.
By Julia Ries
Why Does Online Shopping Make Me Feel Like Absolute Crap?
We’ve all had that icky, anxious feeling after spending hours trying to find the perfect item.
By Lauren Mazzo
16 Audiobooks That Will Help You Stop Doomscrolling
Put your phone down and your earbuds in.
By Sarah Felbin
5 Signs You Complain Too Much—and What to Do Instead
It’s easy to get consumed with negativity without even realizing it’s happening.
By Jenna Ryu
Yep, Your Period Can Cause Awful Anxiety. Here’s How to Deal
It’s not just in your head—and there are ways to prepare each month to feel a lot better.
By Julia Ries
Yes, It’s Possible to Stargaze In a Big City—And It’s So, So Worth It
Join me on an urban astronomy adventure.
By Abbey Stone
Let’s Hear It for the Dolls: A Day Shooting Hoops With Brooklyn’s Trans Basketball League
“You can play hard and have fun without the fear that you’re going to have to deal with pushback from someone.”
By Frankie de la CretazPhotography by Hunter Abrams
Fly-Fishing Helps Me Find Magic in the Microscopic
The big stuff in life is only possible because of the small stuff—the things you wouldn’t normally notice.
By John Paul Brammer
How to Gently Encourage a Loved One to Go to Therapy
If they are super resistant—but could probably benefit from professional help—try these talking points.
By Julia Sullivan