Love
The Best Sex Furniture You Never Knew You Needed (Until Now)
We found 37 functional options to help you spice things up.
By Sarah Madaus, Gabrielle Kassel, and Kristin Canning
8 G-Spot Sex Positions That’ll Hit All the Right Angles
Say hello to deeper penetration (and an incredible orgasm).
By Erica Sloan
17 Comfort Shows to Watch After a Really Bad Breakup
Whether you want to escape from reality, restore your faith in love, or match your gloomy mood.
By Jenna Ryu
No One Told Me How Hard It Is to Date a Medical Student
Here are the tips to get through the toughest moments that I wish I’d known earlier.
By Katie Camero
5 Sneaky Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Your Relationships
Pushing great people away is a subconscious attempt to stay emotionally safe.
By Jenna Ryu
The One Question You Should Never Ask Your Partner During a Fight
It turns the conversation into a debate instead of an opportunity to understand each other.
By Anna Borges
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Love
How to Take Nudes You’ll Actually Love, According to Boudoir Photographers
Your guide to snapping sexy photos of yourself and feeling great about them.
By Erica Sloan
How to Stop Queefing During the Worst Possible Moments
It’s a normal bodily function—but it can still be hella awkward.
By Erica Sloan
Is Hannah’s Red Flags List on ‘Love Is Blind’…a Red Flag?
Her fiancé wasn’t thrilled that she outlined his flaws. Here’s what a relationship expert thinks.
By Jenna Ryu
Amazon Sells Thousands of Sex Toys—Here Are the Best Ones
Twenty-two expert-approved options that'll get you buzzing.
By Jessica Kasparian
These Are the 13 Anal Lubes Sex Experts Swear By
With options for beginners, sensitive skin, and more.
16 slides
By Sarah Madaus and Kristin Canning
Why You Really Shouldn’t Expect ‘Closure’ After a Breakup
Allowing someone else to control how and when you move on will only delay your healing process.
By Jenna Ryu
How to Bounce Back Emotionally After a Fight With Your Partner
It’s normal to feel down post-argument, but these tips can help you snap out of your funk faster.
By Julia Ries
Can My Partner—or Anyone Else—Find Out Who I Vote For?
Here’s a breakdown of your privacy rights—and what to say if you’re hesitant to share your ballot business.
By Julia Ries
Jennie Garth Went Through a ‘Really Hard’ IVF Journey Before Her 2018 Breakup With Dave Abrams
In a new SELF interview, the ‘90210’ star reveals how the experience put her relationship through the wringer.
By Jenna Ryu
Back to the grind
The Best Grinding Sex Toys For When You Feel Like Ridin’ Dirty
There are more ways to use them than you’d think.
By Gabrielle Kassel
Giving Your Partner the Silent Treatment Isn’t Just Petty—It’s Actually Really Toxic
Of course you feel dehumanized and insecure when someone pretends you don’t even exist.
By Jenna Ryu
This Card Game Is Probably the Reason My Partner and I Started Dating
Get ready to dig deep over dinner.
By Gabrielle Kassel
Treasure chest
How to Have a Fantastic Nipple Orgasm Because, Yep, That’s a Thing
It’s all about making your boobs the main event—not the sideshow.
By Erica Sloan
Buzz-worthy
This 3-in-1 Vibrator Makes It Easy to Switch It Up in Bed
I found a beginner-friendly wand that does (almost) everything.
By Gabrielle Kassel