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The One Question You Should Never Ask Your Partner During a Fight

It turns the conversation into a debate instead of an opportunity to understand each other.
Love

How Bad Is It, Really, to Go Through Your Partner’s Phone When They’re Not Looking?

Sneaking a peek at their texts can be tempting, but we asked a therapist if it’s worth it.

Giving Your Partner the Silent Treatment Isn’t Just Petty—It’s Actually Really Toxic

Of course you feel dehumanized and insecure when someone pretends you don’t even exist.
Love

7 People Share How They Discovered Their Partner Was Emotionally Cheating

“She was quick to start fights…and spoke fondly of a coworker.”

What Is ‘Retroactive Jealousy’—And How Do I Stop It From Ruining My Relationship?

It’s okay to be a little preoccupied with your partner’s ex. But how you manage those insecurities makes all the difference.

5 Subtle Signs You Might Actually Be in a Codependent Relationship

And how to regain your independence without having to drift apart.

You Really Can’t ‘Fix’ Other People—Here’s How to Make Peace With That

Past trauma and hurt are valid, but those aren’t excuses for treating you like crap.

Is Giving a Marriage Ultimatum in a Relationship Ever a Good Idea?

We asked a couples counselor for their honest thoughts.

7 Communication Skills Every Couple Should Master, According to Therapists

These techniques can turn a potential blowup into a moment that brings you closer.

The Best Dating Apps for Serious Relationships, Casual Fun, and Anything in Between

The secret to finding someone great—and avoiding a horror story—is picking one that aligns with your unique goals.

What Exactly Counts as ‘Micro-Cheating’?

One person’s painful betrayal may be another’s NBD.

How to Stop Feeling So, So Jealous in a Relationship, According to Experts

If you’re consumed by suspicion, possessiveness, and insecurity, try one of these strategies.

3 Things to Do If a Friend Is Always Late and You Just Can’t Take It Anymore

Blowing up at them won’t help either of you.

17 Comfort Shows to Watch After a Really Bad Breakup

Whether you want to escape from reality, restore your faith in love, or match your gloomy mood.

No One Told Me How Hard It Is to Date a Medical Student

Here are the tips to get through the toughest moments that I wish I’d known earlier.

5 Sneaky Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Your Relationships

Pushing great people away is a subconscious attempt to stay emotionally safe.

Is Hannah’s Red Flags List on ‘Love Is Blind’…a Red Flag?

Her fiancé wasn’t thrilled that she outlined his flaws. Here’s what a relationship expert thinks.

Why You Really Shouldn’t Expect ‘Closure’ After a Breakup

Allowing someone else to control how and when you move on will only delay your healing process.

How to Bounce Back Emotionally After a Fight With Your Partner

It’s normal to feel down post-argument, but these tips can help you snap out of your funk faster.

Can My Partner—or Anyone Else—Find Out Who I Vote For?

Here’s a breakdown of your privacy rights—and what to say if you’re hesitant to share your ballot business.

Jennie Garth Went Through a ‘Really Hard’ IVF Journey Before Her 2018 Breakup With Dave Abrams

In a new SELF interview, the ‘90210’ star reveals how the experience put her relationship through the wringer.
Match made in heaven

Meet the Adorable Tennis Power Couples Competing at This Year’s US Open

“The only thing that counts in my life is going up in the boyfriend rankings.”
Bawl busters

How to Stop Crying During Any Kind of Confrontation

Shedding tears is a natural reaction to conflict, but these tips can help when you’d rather not.
Heart truths

How to Get Over a Breakup, Even When It Feels Impossible

Yes, time helps—but these tips can make the process a little less painful.