Love
What Is ‘Retroactive Jealousy’—And How Do I Stop It From Ruining My Relationship?
It’s okay to be a little preoccupied with your partner’s ex. But how you manage those insecurities makes all the difference.
By Jenna Ryu
5 Subtle Signs You Might Actually Be in a Codependent Relationship
And how to regain your independence without having to drift apart.
By Jenna Ryu
Is Giving a Marriage Ultimatum in a Relationship Ever a Good Idea?
We asked a couples counselor for their honest thoughts.
By Jenna Ryu
The Best Clitoral Vibrators, Whether You’re With a Partner or Flying Solo
The more, the merrier.
By Kristin Canning and Gabrielle Kassel
What Exactly Counts as ‘Micro-Cheating’?
One person’s painful betrayal may be another’s NBD.
By Anna Borges
16 Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles
According to experts and very pleased shoppers.17 slidesBy Jessica Kasparian and Gabrielle KasselVibrators 101: Everything You Need to Know (and the Expert-Approved Ones to Try)
We found beginner-friendly wands, bullets, and more.42 slidesBy Kate Sloan, Sara Coughlin, and Gabrielle KasselThe Best Rabbit Vibrator Is Actually a Snail
After weeks of testing, I can confirm: The hype is real.By Gabrielle KasselYou’re Gonna Want to Say Yes, Yes, YES to These Clitoral Vibrators
These suction, finger, and wand vibes are ready to show you a good time.27 slidesBy Malia Griggs and Kristin CanningHere’s How to Shop for the Right Strap-On
Sex therapists and other experts share their top picks for beginners and experienced users.16 slidesBy Malia Griggs, Sara Coughlin, and Gabrielle Kassel34 Expert-Approved Sex Toys for All Experience Levels
Including beginner-friendly rabbits, remote-controlled vibes, and more.By Malia Griggs, Sara Coughlin, and Gabrielle KasselThe Best Sex Furniture You Never Knew You Needed (Until Now)
We found 37 functional options to help you spice things up.By Sarah Madaus, Gabrielle Kassel, and Kristin CanningThese Are the 13 Anal Lubes Sex Experts Swear By
With options for beginners, sensitive skin, and more.16 slidesBy Sarah Madaus and Kristin Canning- Back to the grind
The Best Grinding Sex Toys For When You Feel Like Ridin’ Dirty
There are more ways to use them than you’d think.By Gabrielle Kassel - Health
Here’s How to Properly Clean Your Sex Toys
Yes, you have to do this. No, it doesn’t have to be a hassle.By Kathleen Felton and Lindsey Lanquist
The Best Lubes for Smooth Sailing Alone or With a Partner
Loved by both experts and shoppers.
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By Sarah Felbin and Kristin Canning
You Really Can’t ‘Fix’ Other People—Here’s How to Make Peace With That
Past trauma and hurt are valid, but those aren’t excuses for treating you like crap.
By Jenna Ryu
7 Communication Skills Every Couple Should Master, According to Therapists
These techniques can turn a potential blowup into a moment that brings you closer.
By Jenna Ryu
How to Use Temperature Play to Ignite Your Sex Life
Adding hot and cold sensations to the mix can go a long way.
By Erica Sloan
The Best Dating Apps for Serious Relationships, Casual Fun, and Anything in Between
The secret to finding someone great—and avoiding a horror story—is picking one that aligns with your unique goals.
By Jenna Ryu and Samantha Vincenty
31 Cute Gifts for Your Long-Distance Partner
We found a mix of practical and romantic presents that say “I can’t wait to see you.”
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By Tasneem Anjarwalla and Sara Coughlin
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Why Does It Burn When I Pee After Sex?
Doctors explain why doing the right thing can feel so painful in the moment.
By Erica Sloan
How to Stop Feeling So, So Jealous in a Relationship, According to Experts
If you’re consumed by suspicion, possessiveness, and insecurity, try one of these strategies.
By Jenna Ryu
3 Things to Do If a Friend Is Always Late and You Just Can’t Take It Anymore
Blowing up at them won’t help either of you.
By Julia Ries
8 G-Spot Sex Positions That’ll Hit All the Right Angles
Say hello to deeper penetration (and an incredible orgasm).
By Erica Sloan
17 Comfort Shows to Watch After a Really Bad Breakup
Whether you want to escape from reality, restore your faith in love, or match your gloomy mood.
By Jenna Ryu
No One Told Me How Hard It Is to Date a Medical Student
Here are the tips to get through the toughest moments that I wish I’d known earlier.
By Katie Camero
5 Sneaky Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Your Relationships
Pushing great people away is a subconscious attempt to stay emotionally safe.
By Jenna Ryu
The One Question You Should Never Ask Your Partner During a Fight
It turns the conversation into a debate instead of an opportunity to understand each other.
By Anna Borges
Love
How to Take Nudes You’ll Actually Love, According to Boudoir Photographers
Your guide to snapping sexy photos of yourself and feeling great about them.
By Erica Sloan
How to Stop Queefing During the Worst Possible Moments
It’s a normal bodily function—but it can still be hella awkward.
By Erica Sloan
Is Hannah’s Red Flags List on ‘Love Is Blind’…a Red Flag?
Her fiancé wasn’t thrilled that she outlined his flaws. Here’s what a relationship expert thinks.
By Jenna Ryu
Amazon Sells Thousands of Sex Toys—Here Are the Best Ones
Twenty-two expert-approved options that'll get you buzzing.
By Jessica Kasparian
Why You Really Shouldn’t Expect ‘Closure’ After a Breakup
Allowing someone else to control how and when you move on will only delay your healing process.
By Jenna Ryu
How to Bounce Back Emotionally After a Fight With Your Partner
It’s normal to feel down post-argument, but these tips can help you snap out of your funk faster.
By Julia Ries